Multicultural Aware Choices
Situation number three in Connecting Across Cultures by Pamela A. Hays gives the example of an older man getting on an elevator at the same time as a woman in a wheelchair. As the woman was trying to enter the elevator, the man offered to help her and reached towards the woman's wheelchair without her consent. The woman reacted towards the man's actions by telling him not to touch her wheelchair. The man believed that the woman was being impolite. Good intentions do not always translate into multicultural aware choices. The way that the man assumed that the woman in the wheelchair needed help had good intentions behind it but, was not the right decision. The woman took offense to this due to the man believing that because the woman has a disability she needs help. Also, one must remember that the wheelchair belongs to the woman, you would not want someone touching something that is very important to you without your permission. ...